September 19, 2011
Just before putting my young son to bed, I have taken to asking him “what was your favourite thing about today?” I don’t ask him to explain, I usually just agree that it was pretty great (whatever it is), tell him I love him and turn out the light. The first few times, I think he was a bit confused by the question. Once, he said, “I don’t want to tell you”. And now he seems to be waiting for the question. Last night, he said, “Pulling things off the table”. I told him I loved him, turned out the light and left him to sleep. Then I went outside and laughed.
Earlier in the evening, he was having a great time pulling things off the kitchen counter, which is just over his head. What this means is that he reaches up and grabs things he can’t see. Like bowls full of eggs, sharp knives, hot water. Needless to say, I was getting pretty annoyed. After finally taking away his chair (which he was using to get yet more dangerous things placed that much further away) and actually yelling at him to “just stop”, I turned away for a moment. He took the opportunity to reach up and grab a very hot lid. At this point the whole thing took a dramatic turn toward the floor, a lap, and a bag of ice.
All of this is to say that I was particularly struck, last night, at how well you can encapsulate a story in just a single line. “Pulling things off the table”. I really don’t think he’d forgotten what came next (he was holding that bag of ice all the way into bed). I think it was just an event worth remembering. A story to tell. His favourite thing about the day.
I think I’m going to start asking myself, just before bed, what was my favourite thing about today. I’m curious to hear what I’ll come up with.